Feeling really lonely and down lately

[Animutiddies]

Run 100mg Tren Ace per day and by the end of week 2 you’ll have a girlfriend or be balls deep in some woman you don’t care about.

 

[Masterofron]

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Run 100mg Tren Ace per day and by the end of week 2 you’ll have a girlfriend or be balls deep in some woman you don’t care about.

Grade A shit advice from the forums biggest assclown! “Tren ace will get you laid bro, bitches will be all over you!”

 

[789169]

if you think tren is going to help your depression I don’t know what to tell you.

 

[uwotm8]

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I’m 25 and I’ve never been in a relationship or had a girlfriend, lately I’ve been feeling very lonely and depressed. I’ve never really tried asking out a girl that I liked so I know you will tell me to start with that. Now what I have noticed is that I see ugly and fat guys with really good girlfriends and I’m not hating or judging them just describing what is it that I’m seeing. What is it that I’m lacking?? I’m here to just vent because I really have nobody to talk to about this. I mean I’m in school (nursing school), I’m big and I work 2 jobs. Maybe I just need to get out more and meet people? But where do I go? Bars? Clubs? With who? I just want to experience love during my young years because I know I won’t get these years back when I’m older and looking back and regretting all of it. I was raised in a household where boyfriend/girlfriend thing is looked down upon and now I’m older and not living at home but I’m not sure what the problem is?? Should I see a therapist? I’m just lost! Didn’t mean to make this long and I hope it doesn’t get removed. I should also add that I’m a nice guy, I mean I can be an asshole but around girls I’m nice, do females not like that?? Should I be an asshole to them? Lastly I should say I do like this one girl in school and out of all the girls in the program she is single and def wifey material and we are kinda like friends, will it mess up what we have if I try to ask her out?

Thanks, all advice appreciated

Hey my man, being a genuinely nice person is always better than being an asshole. The key is to be a GENUINE person. Don’t be overly nice and timid around women just bc they have vaginas. We’re all people at the end of the day. Just don’t put women on a pedestal, and don’t use that fake, overly nice, non-sexual(if you’re looking for a sexual relationship) facade. Women 100% don’t like that. You’ll figure it out, buddy. Best of luck to you.

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Same bro, I don’t know what love is. I feel frustrated about it and I don’t know how to work on it. I know I’m not ugly, I had some girls approached to me. Even guys tried to hit on me. But the thing is that I don’t know how to react because all of my life I feel alone. I tried to talk to my family and they said the same bullshit, you have nothing. It’s like nobody can understand how I feel. But I won’t give up and one day I will see and feel the love. All I need is a hug and nobody wants to support me. I have being a good person all of my life. But apparently that doesn’t work in this world.

Keep it up, you’re not alone.

Hey bro, it sounds like the issue may be a self-confidence issue and being uncomfortable sharing who you are with people. Letting your guard down and being vulnerable at times is the only way to forge the connection that you seek.

I can struggle with this sometimes as well. Life is fluid and most of us are always discovering who we are bc that’s how you grow. Likes, dislikes, hobbies, the things that define you are in constant change. You just have to be willing to share who you are, at that point in time, with others.

Growth is the key, and putting yourself in uncomfortable (new) situations is the only way to achieve that.

 

[Erequester]

Personally, I used to see myself as a “nice guy”. I would do stuff i didn’t want to for others which would make me anger inside but I could say “I’m a nice guy.” It was really damaging relationships I had. Anyway, I read the book “No more Mr. Nice guy” at m8’s recommendation. It’s really good, helped put a lot into perspective.

 

[alphaproject]

MY GF liked me when we met and I was the only guy that had never made advances on her and that made her chase me. She got every guy she ever wanted and it messed with her head that I didn’t care I just liked her as a friend.

There are no rules in meeting another person. I did everything anyone else would not do and it worked… pure luck, but completely genuine. I gave up on woman at a very early age simply because I never got who I wanted and girls that liked me I didn’t like so at 19 I just felt like I’d never get one so I quit caring about it.

You cannot focus on it and think about it all the time. Just meet someone and get to know some women even as friends, then they have friends… then who knows. Clubs now… uggg… I can’t even think about it with social media how it is now. You think a girl is cute and she staring at her phone for 10 minutes during your conversation.

 

[DNPstoney]

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Run 100mg Tren Ace per day and by the end of week 2 you’ll have a girlfriend or be balls deep in some woman you don’t care about.

Grade A shit advice from the forums biggest assclown! “Tren ace will get you laid bro, bitches will be all over you!”

Tbf, it wasn’t as much of a “Tren Ace will get you laid” as much as it was a “Tren Ace will make you not care where you put your dick to the point where you will think about having sex with your empty paper towel holder”. And I can’t exactly disagree with the second part. Tren lowers my standards immensely. I have (women) friends that I would never want to have sex for whatever reason, but on Tren, I become ready to throw all that to the wayside just to fuck.

Doesn’t help your overall life at all though lol. In fact, probably makes it more complicated and worse.

 

[Fordtough]

Everytime you do ask someone you have a 50/50 if she says yes or . Be confident and that not everything will happen they way you want. If you ask 10 times you should have success. Find what you like to do and the girls will follow you. You are in nursing school where ratio is five girls to one guy. I would say take your time be patient and don’t be down when the going gets tough. It life and we can prevail through it!! You gotta make sure you take care of yourself before you can take care of others.

 

[andrew.voorhees32]

Dating apps!!! They are a god send for more introverted awkward people like us who spend too much time online. Download tinder, bumble, OK Cupid to get started. Each have their pro’s and cons, but it is great way to just get started meeting people and developing these social/dating skills. You will get tons of rejections, conversations that she just stops responding to, etc… but is honestly NBD. Us introverts take it too harshly and feel more lost, just keep swiping, matching, and talking. You’ll get better at it and soon enough you will set up a date.

Do something simple and fun, like get coffee or go out to a bar. Its whatever, its just a date. It prob will be awkward and suck because you are new to it, but like lifting or anything else in life you will improve with practice.

I dropped out of my first college, transferred twice, and graduated at 24 with no serious relationships ever and having no real social circle (almost no females in engineering school haha). I had no clue how to meet people or start dates. I downloaded tinder, and was lucky enough to have a fun/aggressive Brazilian girl ask me out to go dancing. I had no clue and looked like a dork. Whole time I was worried she was going to know how big of loser/creep I was. She didnt care, she just wanted to dance and drink and we had a ton of fun. Since then I"ve gone on 20+ dates and I feel confident as hell (despite taking plenty of rejections that definitely can hurt for a week or 2).

Casual Dating is just another skill, at this point I have it down to a formula as to where to meet, what to say, how to end etc… I’ll go on a first date with anybody. Worst case I meet someone new and get better at dating, best case I find a relationship. Watch out for some crazies or potentially a kidnapper/catfishing situations, but so as long as you meet up at a public place you’ll be fine.

My brother is 26 and finally lost his virginity to his GF he met online 4 months ago. He’s madly in love and spends all weekend at her place. His biggest regret is not just downloading the apps sooner, and taking the ignored messages as rejections and feeling hopeless. I wish he told me that sooner, you just gotta power through and keep trying, get better game as you go.

Hope this helps man! Everyone struggles with this, even the hottest people I know nowadays resort to apps but are too embarassed to admit it.

 

[dexes]

I use dating apps and see 2-3 women consistently. One is usually always steady. I highly recommend you read “How to be a 3% man” by Coach Corey Wayne. Not only does this book teach attraction, it teaches communication and masculine energy to attract an ideal woman. They like strong centered men. Be confident, never complain. Talk positive, be positive.

Here is a simple pick up:

Hi whats your name

My name is “Jessica”

Say “It’s nice to meet you Jessica”

If she asks “what’s your name” that indicates a higher level of interest"

if she doesn’t ask your name her interest level is very low.

Keep it short and simple, ask for her number and call 2-3 days later to set up a date. Always give two days, she might really be busy one of those days.

If she wont make definite plans with a definite date say the following: “Jessica, I have a really busy schedule. If we can’t make definite plans now, maybe we should just do it some other time.”

This is called the take away in sales. A lot of the time women will bluff or be unsure. I’ve found 50% +/- they will come back around right away and say they are free on “day” and “time.” Women test to bluff your strength.

The audio book is free and it is really a must read in or not in a relationship. This isn’t a pick up book, it’s about finding an maintaining a relationship with women you ideally want in your life.

Hope this helps someone out.

 

[Dexter]

As and older man heading towards 50 let me state a few things.

First of all, no women is that special(maybe your mom, but she’s your mom).

Most women will play head games with you.

Most of them screw around, because it’s so easy for a women. You think she’s a clean living women, but I can assure you, she’s not.

Most of them have STDs(I’ve gotten some really nasty sh*t over the years, stuff that still affects me to this day)

Women usually lie, manipulate, gold dig, and in general just try to see if they can get a response out of you.

After sliding my dong around in lots of hot women over the years, none of them were worth it. I never liked hanging out with them, the hotter they were, the more boring and shallow they were as a person.

There’s a reason most all of the great philosophers in history were and are men, we seem to want to ask the big questions in life, women usually just want the security of a good provider, someone that looks good and has a big d.

Moral of the story, don’t make yourself miserable trying to meet a women. Society puts these expectations on young men, you must do xyz in order to be fully accomplished as a man. These societal expectations and pressures are 100% pure b.s., the modern man does what he wants, he doesn’t care what others want him to do, he doesn’t chase acceptance. He’s honest and looks for his own happiness, even if society looks down on him. Remember you only have one life, don’t live it trying to look good in others eyes.

Bottom line, half of all marriages end in divorce, if you have kids you will pay for support until they are out of college, your ex-wife will be screwing other men while you send in the check each month to pay for her lube and lingerie.

F-all-of-that.