Sexual performance issues

[BigarmsAL]

Iv been just on a cruise of 175 mg a week for 7 months and also 1500iu hcg a week had bloods done throughout and my t levels are in good shape right around 2000 estrogen 23 am I looking at the wrong stuff is it lh a fsh I need to be concerned with?I cannot seem to understand why I cannot get full erections or maintain one for long kinda sucks when you have a hot chick blowin you and u go soft any advice is appreciated

 

[JDLift]

1: How often do you watch porn?
2: How often do you jerk off?
3: Age?

 

[BigarmsAL]

Well fuck Probly 4 days out of 7 for both sometimes I’ll jack it every day I’m 28 I see where you’re going with this

 

[Sierracon99]

Umm JD might be on to something, but yeah sometimes it'll happen to me if my focus isn't there, idk the older I get the more my cock runs off emotions it seems, but yeah desensitized through porn might be something, your levels are good, are you just not really into it with this hot chick? You can always run a lower dose of cialis for awhile and see if that helps out, but yeah seems more like a mental block. Were you running any 19nors your last blast?

 

[BigarmsAL]

Umm JD might be on to something, but yeah sometimes it'll happen to me if my focus isn't there, idk the older I get the more my cock runs off emotions it seems, but yeah desensitized through porn might be something, your levels are good, are you just not really into it with this hot chick? You can always run a lower dose of cialis for awhile and see if that helps out, but yeah seems more like a mental block. Were you running any 19nors your last blast?

It’s definitely emotional for me I think a mix of that and porn I did run deca last blast I have cialis what dose would you run at ?

 

[BigarmsAL]

It’s definitely emotional for me I think a mix of that and porn I did run deca last blast I have cialis what dose would you run at ?
She’s cool this was our first sexual encounter so maybe a mix of anxiety with it also fuck idk

 

[JDLift]

I don't mean to sound like some super conservative nutjob but too much jacking it and porn can both mess with you.

Beating off too much can make it hard to get off with someone else because you train yourself to respond almost entirely to the stimulation you give yourself. Nobody's gonna be able to hit the rhythm and such as precise as you do, so it puts the game on Hard Mode for anyone trying.

Porn can fuck your brain up. I say CAN and not WILL because it is based on the individual but think about it: If you beat off to things that are not the sex you're actually having/the person you're actually fucking then it's gonna be hard to get interested in the real sex you have. Can't be fapping to redhead double anal orgasm denial videos and expect a blonde Stacy to get you off with her mouth ya know?

28 is also kinda/sorta the beginning of the decline sexually for guys. It sucks but ED in late 20s is not really unheard of. Women tend to lose a big chunk of their sex drive around that point too (I'm not counting the SSRI doped up whores in that figure).

Honestly it isn't that big of a deal. I mean it surely isn't fun going soft but you need to realize it happens to everyone at times, even teenagers in their prime fucking years. I know nobody really talks about this shit so it seems weird but when you're with the right girl she's gonna understand. Plus, women face sexual dysfunction far more often than men (Think: How often do you have to use spit or lube to fuck? Equivalent of her not getting hard basically) and in the end it's just sex. I know modern society thinks that the only thing that matters is sex but it's honestly not that important. The types that tell you sex is all that matters are usually the sweaty Redditor types that are simply projecting hard as fuck because they do not know what sex feels like.

 

[BigarmsAL]

I don't mean to sound like some super conservative nutjob but too much jacking it and porn can both mess with you.

Beating off too much can make it hard to get off with someone else because you train yourself to respond almost entirely to the stimulation you give yourself. Nobody's gonna be able to hit the rhythm and such as precise as you do, so it puts the game on Hard Mode for anyone trying.

Porn can fuck your brain up. I say CAN and not WILL because it is based on the individual but think about it: If you beat off to things that are not the sex you're actually having/the person you're actually fucking then it's gonna be hard to get interested in the real sex you have. Can't be fapping to redhead double anal orgasm denial videos and expect a blonde Stacy to get you off with her mouth ya know?

28 is also kinda/sorta the beginning of the decline sexually for guys. It sucks but ED in late 20s is not really unheard of. Women tend to lose a big chunk of their sex drive around that point too (I'm not counting the SSRI doped up whores in that figure).

Honestly it isn't that big of a deal. I mean it surely isn't fun going soft but you need to realize it happens to everyone at times, even teenagers in their prime fucking years. I know nobody really talks about this shit so it seems weird but when you're with the right girl she's gonna understand. Plus, women face sexual dysfunction far more often than men (Think: How often do you have to use spit or lube to fuck? Equivalent of her not getting hard basically) and in the end it's just sex. I know modern society thinks that the only thing that matters is sex but it's honestly not that important. The types that tell you sex is all that matters are usually the sweaty Redditor types that are simply projecting hard as fuck because they do not know what sex feels like.

Shit man that makes so much sense so then what I’ll do is lay off jacking it and see where that puts me you’re totally right how the hell can I expect a woman to get me off or even get me Intrested if all I’m doing is watching un realistic shit basically thanks for bringing it to my attention you’ve been a big help

 

[Sierracon99]

It’s definitely emotional for me I think a mix of that and porn I did run deca last blast I have cialis what dose would you run at ?
She’s cool this was our first sexual encounter so maybe a mix of anxiety with it also fuck idk

Yeah that 'first time jitters' is a thing while you both are trying to satisfy the other and can get in your own head about it. Remember at the end of the day it's meant to be fun so keep it light ya know? Umm I'd say 10-20mg cialis would be fine, if anything it'll help you mentally more than anything when you feel yourself getting fully hard, I know once that happens for me the anxiety is gone and from then on I have the confidence and go into smash mode. Good luck man, you'll definitely get past this.

 

[BigarmsAL]

Yeah that 'first time jitters' is a thing while you both are trying to satisfy the other and can get in your own head about it. Remember at the end of the day it's meant to be fun so keep it light ya know? Umm I'd say 10-20mg cialis would be fine, if anything it'll help you mentally more than anything when you feel yourself getting fully hard, I know once that happens for me the anxiety is gone and from then on I have the confidence and go into smash mode. Good luck man, you'll definitely get past this.

I Appreciate it brother !!!

 

[Trest_Museum]

+1 on the masturbating/porn usage. Unless I’m on blast and can masturabate 3 times and still want more with my lady, I don’t masturbate. Too much manual self-stimulation will decrease your sensitivity and just make your dick not work as well. Porn is a horrible outlet for sexual energy after your teens, don’t watch it.

Cialis is great for removing any worries I might have. Once the thought of “oh no I’m getting soft” enters your mind, it’s over, you’re gonna lose it. With cialis, I don’t even consider it. And with no worries at all about your sexual performance, confidence skyrockets, and so does your ability to have fun sexually.

Just practice some self control and restraint, and you’ll be great.

 

[BigarmsAL]

+1 on the masturbating/porn usage. Unless I’m on blast and can masturabate 3 times and still want more with my lady, I don’t masturbate. Too much manual self-stimulation will decrease your sensitivity and just make your dick not work as well. Porn is a horrible outlet for sexual energy after your teens, don’t watch it.

Cialis is great for removing any worries I might have. Once the thought of “oh no I’m getting soft” enters your mind, it’s over, you’re gonna lose it. With cialis, I don’t even consider it. And with no worries at all about your sexual performance, confidence skyrockets, and so does your ability to have fun sexually.

Just practice some self control and restraint, and you’ll be great.

Thanks for your input definitely will watch it and have a little more self control lol can be hard sometimes but it’s worth it in the end